Everyone enjoys the pleasure of sex and once we discover it, we never go back. We then spend our lives finding out what we like and what our preferences are, trying to align our habits with our partners’ to fit with what we are really into.

Sex is an incredibly personal thing, whether that be masturbation or sex with another person; either way, it’s always an experience. The wonders and delights of being a human being mean we are always exploring, whether that be ourselves, others, or the world itself.

So given how thrilling, exciting, and enjoyable sex can be, there’s no wonder that people have been trying to find the very best ways to stimulate themselves for centuries. Now due to the world we live in and the advancement in technology and manufacturing capabilities, sex toys have become prevalent and used in people’s lives all over the world.

If you’re currently looking for ways to spice things up a bit or maybe you have a dildo lying around that you haven’t used in a while, there are always things you can do to improve ways of pleasuring yourself. If you do your research, try a few things out then you will most likely discover what works for you.

Having an open mind and embracing new experiences is the best way to break through and find out what really gets you going. Here are some top tips to effectively use dildos and amplify your sexual pleasure:

Different Settings

A lot of the dildos you can buy these days come with multiple different settings. You can choose to use different vibrations based on the mood you’re in, each one giving a different level of satisfaction. Dildos are ideal when searching for easy ways to find pleasure. Along with this, there are various movements that a dildo can do, to simulate real-life movement during sex with a partner. You may choose to use the movement settings to try and climax depending on what works for you. 

Lubrication

If you’re having trouble getting things going, using lube might be a good shout. Gels can help increase stimulation, allow the pleasure to flow better, and provide an overall better experience. The best sex is when you are ‘wet’ and dry sex can lead to irritation and soreness, which is never good. You don’t want to be worried about pain during sex, in fact, quite the opposite. If you have never used lubrication before and are a little bit apprehensive, you have nothing to worry about. It is a very safe thing to add to your sexual routines.

Sex With Others

Bringing others into the mix can really spice things up and keep excitement levels high. You could try having someone else use the dildo on you, using the different settings to really hit the spot and boost your sexual pleasure. Adding sex toys in with your partner may actually help your overall sexual relationship if things have become a bit stagnant in the bedroom. You could also try using the dildo on your partner, switching things up and putting you in control of the situation. One of the biggest turn-ons can be pleasuring those we love and ensuring they are having the best possible time.

Use It At The Right Time

It’s important to know when you are feeling horny and in the mood for sex. What can often happen is you start using a dildo and don’t get the best out of it and think that the next time is going to be the same. However, you may have just eaten, be tired, or just not in the mood. Our feelings of sexuality need to be amplified in order to achieve the levels of pleasure we truly want, so make sure you’re in the mood and everything is set up properly both physically and mentally.

Sex can play a huge part in improving mental health, something which is delicate for a lot of people considering the global events of the last twelve months. If you focus on yourself for a while and self-love, you may feel better in the long run.

So to summarise, if you want to amplify your sexual pleasure you probably need to experiment with a few different things until you find your groove. Every person is different and we all have different preferences, so taking your time and discovering what you like on your own without being forced will lead to you being content long term.

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