Threesomes have always been quite a common sexual fantasy for a man to indulge in, usually involving himself, his partner, and a female guest. However, these days it has become more common for men to fantasise about MMF threesomes and for women to fantasise about experimenting with a menage a trois without any persuasion from her partner, but why are they such a common fantasy?

Kudos.

Traditionally, men have been interested in threesomes with two women and this can partly be attributed to male pride. You can never have too much of a good thing and this applies to sex as much as it does to anything else. Men like sex, therefore the more of it, the better, and the more the merrier. This may sound a little simplistic, but this is the basis for the common MFF fantasy. Men also take a sense of pride in the thought that they are virile enough to satisfy two women at once and getting respect from their friends for doing so. These days women also fantasise about having twice as much fun too and they are not afraid to talk about it. Hence, the fantasy has become more common.

Evolving Attitudes.

Attitudes have been evolving for the last century when it comes to sex and it could be argued that we have never been more liberal-minded than we are now. Sexual identity and orientation have become more fluid and same sex experiences are no longer taboo. It has become more common for people who identify as straight to fantasise about having a same-sex experience and experimenting. It is also more common to discuss sexual fantasies with your partner or even your friends which was certainly not the done thing in times gone by. It may be that threesomes were always a common fantasy for both men and women, but now that it has become more mainstream, it is easier to discuss and fantasise about if you weren’t already doing so.

Curiosity.

People talking about threesomes more has led to others becoming more curious about having an experience themselves. It’s like a lot of things – once someone has put an idea in your head, it can be hard to stop thinking about it, especially if it is sexy. This can lead to curiosity and the fantasy becoming more common.

Easy Access.

Threesomes are easier to access now than ever. This does not always lead to people acting out their fantasy but knowing that a threesome is a real possibility has made it more accessible and therefore something people are more likely to at least fantasise about. Technology has played a huge part in this. The invention of UK sexcams means that you can take this fantasy one step further by indulging in some group activities without having to take the step of doing so. This can make it feel safer. Babestation cams has made it easier for available and willing participants to be found too, as there are always girls online who are ready to indulge your threesome fantasies. A post on sex fantasies wouldn’t be complete without telling you how to access a virtual three-way. 

Naughtiness.

Many people get turned on by the thought of being naughty and although threesomes are no longer the taboo that they used to be, they still have an element of naughtiness and risk about them that a lot of people find attractive. This becomes even more fun if the fantasy is shared as many couples find that just talking about the idea of a threesome and sharing fantasies makes things heat up in the bedroom.

Spicing Things Up.

A new couple will often indulge in experimentation to see what turns their partner and themselves on, and to find out what works for them as a couple. This can lead to trying out a variety of food or toys in the bedroom which can be great fun. However, bedroom antics tend to slow down once a couple has been together for a while and sex can revert to being twice a week with the lights off and rarely anything more exciting. Introducing a threesome angle, even if it is just a fantasy, can be a way for couples who are bored of their sex life but secure in their relationship to experiment. Even if this never happens in practice, you can bet that at least one half of the couple has fantasised about it during lovemaking.

It Can Lead to Other Fantasies.

A threesome fantasy can be a great place to start if you want to explore other fantasies too. For example, you may have fantasised about watching your partner have sex with another man or woman, or perhaps you want to take centre stage yourself and be watched by your partner as you perform with someone else. A threesome fantasy will allow you to indulge in the world of voyeurism/exhibitionism. 

The phenomenon of the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy has led to a lot of couples wanting to explore submission/domination roles in the bedroom, and indulging in a threesome fantasy at the same time can add to the excitement. Whether your fantasy is to be in control of two men who will do whatever you command or you want to be dominated by two women at the same time, a threesome fantasy adds an extra element to any other fantasy. This has led to the fantasy of threesome+ becoming much more common. 

Pleasing a Partner.

Some people indulge in threesome fantasies to please a partner although it may not be their own fantasy. This is okay if it remains just a fantasy, but you should never feel coerced into any form of sexual activity that you are not comfortable with. It is just as acceptable not to fantasise about threesomes as it is to fantasise about them a lot.

These are just some of the reasons why threesomes are such a common sexual fantasy. They have certainly joined the mainstream and it looks as if they are here to stay.

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